Showing posts with label Inroduction. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Inroduction. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Talk to me!

So, I want this blog to be HELPFUL.  And I can guess at what issues/problems/questions/frustrations you're having, because I've been there.  (Got hitched at 26 - but was planning on being single a lot longer!) 
BUT
This blog can be better if you talk to me.  Really. 
I've set this blog up with the right settings - you can comment anonymously so NO ONE will know who you are and NO ONE can stalk you.  (Because we all know, creepy happens.)
So, tell me what's up.  What are you wondering about?  Who is making you CRAZY?  Do you think I'm WAY off on something?  Comment away.  Your secret's safe with me.  Because really, who am I gonna tell?  My three year old who doesn't even talk (he has autism) or my one year old.  I think you're good.

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

About Me

I'm a 30 year old mother of two who is qualified to help you with dating because I did it all wrong.  How do you get through 4 years at BYU-I without a single real relationship in Rexburg?  How do you write a missionary for 2 years and have it take nearly a year after he gets home to even go on a date?  How do you wind up hiding behind dumpsters to avoid the dreaded DTR?  And then, one day, I figured it out.  I was making it all entirely too hard.  This isn't about Molly Mormon, Peter Priesthood, Becky Homemaker or that guy/girl your parents can't stand.  This is about real people having real expectations, real relationships, and being happy.  But it takes two to tango.  Book of Mormon distance, people. 

Ending up pretty darn happily married is no accident.

So tell your FHE group, the guy who can't commit, that girl who keeps calling you, and drop by!  Ask questions, seek advice, and be open for some change.